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Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Living in LA between an ocean and a desert, with hills for company :)

So I am here at Los Angeles. It was a long journey, with three well distributed flights - 5.40hr from Delhi to Singapore, 7.40hr from Singapore to Tokyo and 9hr40 from Tokyo to LA :P


Me @USC :)
To say that USC is an international university would be an understatement - it takes in more foreign students every year than any other university in the US. And my first few days here have been nothing if not full of international exposure :p. My first visit to the university campus laid down the marker to be honest. While looking for a photocopying machine I ran into a couple of Frenchmen who were also looking for the same. They are here on a semester-long exchange program from their French B-School. The first thing I was asked after I told them I was from India was if I played field hockey. Woah, I thought, Europeans talking about hockey!! Even we dont do that much back home in India, unless we are playing Pakistan :D Apparently T really enjoyed playing hockey and had seen some big stars play in the European league. And the surprise didnt end there -  he had even played cricket!! When I finally asked him if he had played football (or, soccer as its called here) he told me he didnt like it much because it is a very rough game. It was quite interesting to speak with a French guy who would rather play hockey and cricket than football!! A slight shame was that he was unaware of Major Dhyan Chand's iconic statue in Austria. He was also surprised to know that Delhi's hockey stadium, named after the great man, has a capacity of 25000 ppl - about 30 times that of the stadium in his city :p

The next day I ran into a drunken immigrant who seemed to think I owned the shop next to the bus stop :p Wonder what gave him the idea? :p The same day I received a Namaste from a local bus driver - he was very helpful too and guided me to the nearest eatery, something that my grumbling stomach badly wanted :p
Earlier that day, me and my roommate had helped a Vietnamese student open her bank account. Suffice to say the international nature of the university pretty much hit me in the face straight up :P And then, something something else hot me - the jetlag and the gigantic 1230hr time difference from Delhi. I would sit somewhere and couldnt keep my eyes open.

That weekend I went to the Gurdwara here- the langar was awesome :D. I also went to the Griffith Observatory thereafter and bought a ticket for the space presentation there but pretty much slept right through it :p Only remember the last part - the orator said, "We are all made from star dust. So when we travel to the space in our space trips, with our telescopes and in our minds, we are going home." (Note to self - Visit the Nehru Planetarium next time I am home in Delhi :D )

The view from Griffith Observatory - with downtown LA in background

And the other side offered a good view of the world famous Hollywood Sign!!

Hollywood Sign!!
The next week the experiences continued - this time at the International Student Orientation at the university. And that brings us to the title of this post. By a stroke a chance, I seated myself on the same table for lunch as the guest speaker for the orientation herself. She was one of the Board Members of the Alumni Association and enlightened us with some interesting facts about the city of Angels during lunch. She said that LA witnesses weather unlike any other city because it has the Pacific and sea-breeze on one side and the Nevada desert and its hot winds and the other. So it is bright and sunny here and there is hardly any rainfall. And to top it all off, the Big Bear mountain in the vicinity offers snow-capped peaks near Christmas time even as Malibu Beach enjoys a warm sunshine - All in the same city :O

Beach, Ocean, Hills and Skyscrapers: LA has it all :)
(Taken at Santa Monica Beach)

 She also said that public transit here is awful - made me feel happy that the Metro back home in Delhi ensures Delhites can never complain about public transit being poor :)

What was also interesting during the orientation was that all the students working with the orientation team were undergrads, and seemed to be lively personalities and studied subjects such as East Asian Culture, Theatre and Cinema.  The self-confidence that those guys portrayed left me wondering if any undergrad, or grad student for that matter, in India could be so self-assured. And to think that I am a good three years elder to them, with an year-and-a-half industry experience, but nowhere as self-confident as them.
The orientation day also saw me meet more foreign students - including a Chinese student who, although was not good with English, was here to study Music. Wow, I thought!! A piano player coming across the world to study music - just incredible.

Also, met a Mexican student and discussed food - she really liked Indian food with all its likeness to Mexican food in terms to spices (something I was able to observe that first-hand when I ate at a a Mexican place the next day :) ). She also said LA is like half-Mexican and half-everyone-else - and in my little experience here so far, hard to disagree with that :D

The next day, as the Orientation continued, I met a Dutch grad student here to major in Communications. She used to work at the Amsterdam Arena back home in the Netherlands and it was great to discuss football with her :) Though I have to say she didnt really want to talk about her team's defeat in the WC final :P But she quite liked it when I told her how I had lost a bet, and made of several friends lose it too :p, when the Dutch beat Brazil at the QF stage :p :D (Didnt discuss the FB backlash though :p)

A big difference in LA from Delhi is of course the traffic system. Pedestrians have the right of way here (a HUGE change from Delhi :p ) but they can be fined as high as $200 if found to be abusing this right by jaywalking!! And of course, US follows a left-hand drive system. So to take a left you basically have to wait in the middle of the road for the traffic going straight to slow down and give you space to move. I have absolutely no doubt that such a system cant work in an overpopulated India, where everyone is in a hurry - all the time :P

This post is already very long but my experiences arent done yet :p - I have also enjoyed the company of some amazing fellow Indians as well. The bakar at my resistance has been amazing - covering topics ass diverse as US and Indian education systems, the economic recession here, and Anna Hazare and corruption in the country - there have been some heated discussions I must say :p A weird thing here though has been the gutbaazi - Chinese students stick with other Chinese students, Koreans with other Koreans and Indians with other Indians - with other people from their own regions.

My classes will start next week so I will probably not get time to write again - agle 2-3 baar ki kasar nikal di issi post mein :P

PS> A big discussion is on again here :P

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Transiting from T(SC) to U(SC), and taking three months for it..


T and U are adjacent letters in the English alphabet, however, my job at TSC and my current status as a graduate student at USC are as different environments as possible. The change in a single letter took me a huge three months to complete. But as I flew from Delhi to LA, I couldnt help but look back at the days at my first job.

My year-and-a-half-and-a-week-and-a-half at TSC had been a most memorable experience where I have learnt so much more than I could ever imagine and made such wonderful friends that even my co-travelers on the flight to LA reminded me of them :P The three months have been an interesting time; at times I have felt like I am still an employee at TSC, albeit one without work - and without pay, obviously :p - simply because I have been in such close contact with my friends there that I have felt their presence all around me. Sometimes it has scared me because I wonder if it is unhealthy for me, an opinion that several of friends seemed to have as well, simply because that part of my life has now ended and a new has begun. And yet, I have never been able to do it. In mid-June, I closed my office bank account as a step towards closure - not very successful in attaining closure though. But now that I am here in LA it will finally begin to happen.

But that is no way to say that I want to let go of my friends. They are well and truly all over my thoughts. The memories of my time at office are amazing to say the least. I tried to get them all these presents with me as well but only a few could make it with me across the Pacific (due to airline baggage policy :p)

Some great memories from office


Girl Next Door is one of my favorite movies and I love the part where towards the end when Emile Hirsh's character recounts the three things from high school that "I will always remember...".  For me, TSC was no less than a school - the one that taught me an insane amount about myself. And as I will leave it behind to start a new life, I will be remembering more than just 3 things :P

I'll always remember...

  • AK's smiles
  • GO's thoughts
  • Ze Gang!!
                  The "idhar aa" to AS; and standing at my desk and observing the office 
                  Tech gupshup with RN
                  Talking to PS
  • Wittiness of Furobiker
  • The amazing memorabilia I collected at my office desk
  • Bakar and Calivin and Hobbes with AM
  • NB and SG, and clicking pics of RB :p
  • Discussing movies with SR
  • Working with the MD
  • My baymates - RM and AMa; the emptiness of the bay and later PS
  • 240 
  • Cabbies - esp. RR 
  • Lancedowne and the office parties
And of course, I will remember the fun I could have on weekends - life as an MS student might not give me time for that :p

And other than all this I will remember pretty much everything, on and off :p

Signing Off,
An ex-TSCite and a brand new Trojan :)

Friday, July 29, 2011

Fun with a Schoolmate, College Mates and in the Air :)

I went on a trip to Bangalore and Goa to meet an old school friend and slightly newer college friends - my last outing outside of Delhi before I fly to LA to commence my MS.. And it was every bit as memorable as I had hoped with even the flights to Bangalore and back to Delhi being wonderful as well :)

It didnt start too well - my flight to Banagalore was delayed by 90 mins and then by another 40 mins as I was on my way there in the metro. The second delay turned out to a blessing in disguise as I needed those 40 mins to get to the airport on time because I had no idea that I would need to take a shuttle from metro station to my airport terminal :p And not just that, the delay allowed me the company of a complete stranger whom I later found was supposed to fly at a flight 2 hrs later than mine. Agar woh flight delay nahi hoti toh itni amazing conversation miss ho jati meri :)

The stranger was a Sardarni about my age and as I found out - extremely aggressive and feisty even more so than my former cab-mate (never thought I could ever say that :p).. We started talking after she saw my book (Agatha Christie's Unfinished Portrait) and asked if I had another. I gave her that one only as I was getting bored anyway :p In less than 5 mins she was also bored and we started talking :p She told of her life experiences - which have been plentiful despite her being an year younger to me..

One incident she told that kind of seemed typical of her was when she, and a friend following her lead, slapped the driver a van full of ruffians at a red light in Delhi. She said that everyone weighted as the light turned green and then red again even as she kept letting it rip, verbally this time :p, at the people in the van. And no one blew their horn - which is amazing for Delhi..

She was going to Bangalore to visit her boyfriend, no no, fiancĂ© as she corrected herself :p - who, I was surprised to learn was eight years elder to her. And this wasn´t the only difference in them - their paring seemed to personify opposites attract - her being brash and him being sedate..

I guess the thing I liked best is when she said she always thought it would be great when she would walk next-to-next with a Turban-clad Sikh - Gave me hope :D Though I think I should take it with a pinch of salt as the boy she is marrying, although a Sikh, is not Turban- clad - Hopes belied :P

After a lot more chatter,  she even guided me to the bus shuttle service, once we landed at Begaluru, that I needed to take to reach my friend - Hoping we meet again on another flight :) The airport reminded me of the one in Chennai..

And that friend is the next fun part of the trip - my schoolmate Sanjay whom I was meeting after 5 years.. Had a great time with him - he had a nice place with a wonderful terrace full of plants and greenery.. I also came to know that Bengaluru had such great weather because of its altitude - all the roads were inclined as well. The traffic was pretty bad though - as bad as rush hour traffic in Delhi :p and that too on a Saturday morning :p Amongst the things I liked abt Begaluru was the wonderful, and much cheaper, non-vegetarian food.. Food really was awesome :D

We ended the day with an hour long gupshup at a park - watching kids enjoy their swings.. In the meantime he got a call from his gf and when he told her that he was sitting in the park with a Jaspreet - I needed to make myself heard and let her know that I was a guy :D

In the night, I bid him goodbye and boarded the bus to Goa - I was joined on the bus by college mate Karan and we had a great time chatting up in the bus before we slept - had a real heart-to-heart over topics not to be discussed in a public domain :p

Green Goa :)

It was a long time before we reached Goa and even longer before we reached our other college friends at the Viva Baga in North Goa.. I had been to Goa last year in the same season as part of office trip so at every step there was a comparison to that :p

Last time the ride across Goa to go to a tourist destination had been enjoying the company of amazing people, whom I am still great friends with despite having left office. This time it was about enjoying the place - which was frankly beautiful with all the monsoon-induced greenery :)

We went to Colva Beach near Madgaon and stopped at several places in between to enjoy the scenery.. The Beach was beautiful - with wonderful white sand and some great shells as well - some of which made their to our hotel room through a couple of my friends´ shorts :P

On the way back we missed a cut and decided to take a ferry and then ride across Old Goa with no street lights to get back to the hotel - that was fun :) Later that night me and two others hit the Baga Beach at 130 in the night - The sound of the waves was just wonderful :)

Next day we went to a really old Church - beautiful place :) And then it rained - powerfully, beautifully and spread greenery all around :)

A Delightful Sight En-route to Aguada

 It made the drive to Aguada Fort simply superb - once we got there we had to get the camera out even though it was raining cats and dogs :P

Aguada Fort

The flight back was equally enjoyable - saw Zabaan Sambhal Ke on in-flight entertainment and captured the sunset on camera from above the clouds :) I had been disappointed to miss out on the sunset at the beach due to clouds but no such problems when you are miles above the earth and can see above the clouds :)

Up in the air


It was a great trip - a kind of farewell India tour that I will remember for a long time.. Just 5 days are left before I fly away to LA but somehow I am feeling like a tourist - maybe that´s because I want to come back in December - and I will :) AM a little scared about my ability to cope after 2 years away from studies and more importantly from my field.. The magnitude of MS hasnt sunk in yet. But till then I will feel happy about the fun I had in Goa and Bengaluru.. and while I was in the air :)